Howdy there, Wow I did a thing that I’m a little uneasy about. I’m trying something new. Why? Have you ever just examined how much time you really spend doing something? For me, as I age it seems like I keep running out of time in a day… I have no energy to get much done. Now it could be a medical problem but I doubt it… So today I closed my Facebook Account, and Twitter Account and Instagram Account in hopes that I will create more, read more, get more done around the house, be more present (Quit thinking of the Past, or worrying about the Future that may never come)
I have been thinking about this for a while. Sometimes seeing too much into someone’s else’s life, it just makes you think yours isn’t so great. Social media is almost like being able to mind read your loved ones. Which can be exciting but hurtful too. If someone want me to know something about their lives they can call me or tell me in person. Direct Contacts if you dare. hehehe
There is nothing worse than really wanting a visit from a loved one, it’s on the books only to learn that they did something way more fun. The sad thing is the person hurt was not the intention. Social Media doesn’t explain why someone chose to do something different with their time. Sigh…. And it is also a vicious way to hurt someone if it was intentional….
I cherish my connections with people, but it’s time to do it up close and personal instead of behind a computer screen. There is so much information lost and misinterpretation going on. I just read the AWESOME Book called “Lost Connections” it has an entire chapter on this issue. Worth a read… It will be interesting to see if my relationships will become closer or not… Kind of like a Social Studies experiment I guess….
Love your comments on this action…..
Letting go of the concept of ourselves to discover who we truly are. What a concept…mmmm How the heck does one do that? I am listening to an interesting interview https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HHhEPUp5X_I. Pondering…….
Need to discover my inner reality… ooo this could be fun (heaven)… or horrifying(hell)…
Find the dimension of inner spaciousness. Uncluttered mind. No thought. Inter alter stills? mmmm what the heck… and I do this? Can I sense these dimension in other people? How do you get to know that person’s inner self? Beyond your personality, the unconditioned self recognition. Recognize everyone as yourself? We are all one big consciousness? mmmm
So there is a form identity and then there is a being identity – need to have access self transcendence.
Unconsciousness in spiritual terms means you are reacting to a situation that is using what behaviors you have learned good or bad…. This is the mode one is in when they are on drugs so obviously their behavior is worse than if they were sober… The goal in life when you are struggling is to be conscious on a deeper level so that you can react more appropriately and not have to suffer the consqences of doing stupid things you regret. mmm
Free will – one needs to aware of the condition of your mind in order to access free will happily?
ooo good video on how to get rid of Negative thoughts… https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j91ST2gtR44……
Short post for the day, hope it provides some improvements to your life!
OOO this is such a good question to solve especially when you are feeling low.
I surfed the web and found this site: It’s a test to determine what motivates you. https://www.psychologies.co.uk/tests/what-motivates-you.html. Wait none to the options even fit what I would do ok. So now what?
Lets turn to Oprah… OK here we go… http://www.oprah.com/omagazine/how-to-determine-what-motivates-you-motivation-style_1. OMG this one is fun. Especially question 2. I would choose “Sop their cars before running over me.” so funny.
2. I’d feel frustrated if other people didn’t…
- Give me whatever I want and agree with everything I say.
- Rearrange their schedules to accommodate my desires.
- Listen respectfully to my opinions and ideas.
- Consider my needs when allocating money, time, or energy.
- Stop their cars before running me over.
I am definitely having a motivation problem according to Oprah as I didn’t even get close to a score of 6… mmmmmm Take the test and see what you can learn about yourself.
But I have to say it worked this site. I am now motived to figure out how to motivate myself. hehehehehe
Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!